Getting organized, along with losing weight and quitting smoking, is on most people's list of new year's resolutions. Here are some ideas for resolutions, and three rules for increasing your success at keeping those resolutions.
First rule for any resolution: keep it small enough to be do-able. You want a goal that's reachable soon, even if it seems insignificant. You're setting the stage for the next, bigger goal. Success breeds success.
Second rule: It's all about you. Don't compare yourself to others, especially that more organized neighbor or relative. You have your own unique skills, talents, desires and motives. Work with them, not against them. Start where you are now.
Okay, here are some suggestions. Scale them up or down as needed.
- I will sort my mail every day
- I will spend 30 minutes a week decluttering (use a timer!)
- I will give away magazines before the next issue arrives even if I haven't gotten around to reading them
- I will keep a shopping bag in my closet to put clothes I'm donating in
- I will keep my to-do list small and manageable (put it on a Post-It)
The challenge:
How do you remember to do all these wonderful things? Despite your best intentions, you may find it hard to work these new behaviors into your life. Make it easier with reminders that work for you. Use Post-Its on the bathroom mirror; a classic. Programmed, regular email reminders are my favorite. Find a partner to trade reminders with on the phone every week.
Third rule: don't beat yourself up if you get behind. Just start again. Remember when you learned to ride a bike? How often did you fall off before you were able to fly down the street on that thing? Once you were flying, you probably didn't think about the falling part anymore. So, get on the bike.
I'd like to attest to the timer technique. Even if you have only five minutes you can set a timer to see how much you actually do get done in that time. Nice tips, Clutter Coach.
Posted by: Ellen | December 27, 2010 at 06:35 PM